The importance of living every day to the max is reinforced by the almost daily events that I see around me. Many of us are procrastinators. We think about an old friend and want to call her, but before you know it, you hear she has died and you never made the phone call. You may talk about a special trip you have been wanting to take for years, and have put off for one reason or another. Then something happens to you, and you never get to make the trip.
Two examples. My friend was walking her dog recently right in front of her house. She stopped to say hello to her neighbors, who were in their garage. Here's what happened next. The husband was closing up the garage, not realizing that the wife decided to run out of the garage to get something. The garage landed on the woman, knocked her down. Paramedics were called. She was taken to the hospital with a broken hip and lascerations.
Another example occurred in another seemingly harmless situation. My friend was coming out of the hairdresser's after having her hair done, stepped off the curb, fell and broke her femur. She has been in rehab for two weeks now, and may never be the same. The trip she had planned for late summer will have to be cancelled.
When you get to be a certain age (actually any age!), things can happen anywhere, anytime, that can change your life forever. Do the nice things you have thought about doing NOW. Don't wait. Bring your neighbor dinner, just because, or call your daughter and tell her you love her, just because. You'll feel good, they'll feel good, and let's face it, you may not get another opportunity.
That reminds me, I've been putting off making a phone call for over a month now. I'm going to go make it right away!!